anjelica ` aj ' hadsell , 18 , has been missing since march 2 , when she was home in norfolk while on spring break from longwood university .
remains were found in franklin , 40 miles from norfolk , on thursday and they are being taken to the medical examiner 's office for identification .
her stepdad wesley hadsell was arrested after breaking into a home two weeks after her disappearance and claims he was looking for aj .
he has insisted that he does n't know where she is .